“Our story began on December 8th, 2010 when Alyssa was diagnosed with strep and mono,” Gretchen writes on her Caring Bridge blog. “She was placed on antibiotics, and we continued with our plans for Christmas and our annual trip to Deep Creek.” Except Alyssa stayed sick- she ran fevers, complained about pain in her leg, was maybe a little more pale than usual, and was just out of sorts.
By January 13th, 2011, Alyssa and Mike were rushing Alyssa to Johns Hopkins where they were waiting to admit her. She was diagnosed with Acute Lymphocytic Leukemia (ALL). This liquid tumor, or cancer of the blood, starts in the bone marrow and spreads through the bloodstream. It is the most common children’s cancer, accounting for more than 2,900 cases in children each year. Unlike other types of children’s cancer, ALL has an 80-90% survival rate.
Word of Alyssa’s diagnosis spread quickly amongst friends. Tears flowed freely. Our small community hung on to every update and blog post from Gretchen, and everyone rallied to help. Neighbors cooked and chauffeured and prayed for their tough little fighting princess- the little, happy, bouncy girl that couldn’t possibly have cancer. More than 90 people donned hot pink shirts on September 10th to support the CureSearch Walk in Baltimore, where Team ALYSSA raised over $13,000 for children’s cancer research.
Alyssa is in the maintenance phase of her chemo now. She takes her chemo and other medications in a series of pills at night and her hair is coming back in a little darker and maybe a little curlier. Her brother Alex helps with her physical therapy (the result of a broken foot) by tossing balls for her to kick. Gretchen gives honest updates about their cancer reality on her blog. From her account of lying face down on the Target floor (in her high end designer stilettos, no less), to the craziness about a freakin’ life sized chicken named Doofus, we all find it nearly impossible to read her updates without crying or laughing or looking for the jerk that was rude to tell them to back off.
Over the summer the Klebasko family had beautiful family portraits taken through Flashes of Hope, a nonprofit organization that aims to change the way children with cancer see themselves through the gift of photography. Since Alyssa entered the maintenance phase of her treatment, however, the family needed a little photo update for the holidays.
I went to their home on a lazy Sunday afternoon and hung around for a hot second. Alyssa was bouncing all over the place and Alex couldn’t wait to get back to whatever big kid thing he was doing before he had to put shoes on for photos. Their home was quiet. Peaceful. Easy. Something that they all appreciate a lot more these days.
by Danielle
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